A lot of things have happened and you can’t seem to let go. Holding on to the past is limiting your effectiveness and happiness. Before you release the baggage, take a look through it. There are valuable lessons to be learned if you put in the work. In reverse, you’re unwilling or unable to see the forest for the trees… you just hang on to a position without being able to hear the arguments against your stance. Stubborn, stubborn, stubborn. In terms of healing, let someone else speak, let go of the outcome, let go of grudges. They are hurting you more than you know.